Should we normalize kink? The conversation floats around online, usually from one side or the other— from the kinksters who want everyone else to “catch up,” to the anti-kinksters who want to shut it all down. Yet again, this is a conversation that needs some nuance— so that’s where I come in. We talk about the pros and cons of normalizing kink, the gravity of the idea that “the personal is the political” and much more.