It’s a trope of the recovering codependent/people-pleaser/anxious attacher and a trauma response to self abandon in exchange for love and belonging. It’s usually camouflaged by sensitivity, attunement and rapport. Whilst self mastery is key, it’s not the only piece. Healthy individuation is also required. If you’d like to talk to me you can book a free call here: https://calendly.com/jemimahouse/30-minute-face-to-face?month=2023-