Hey everybody! Welcome to another episode of Revelation!
I've been thinking about smiling for a while now, and I'm really excited to share my thoughts with you today. I know it might sound like a weird topic, but hear me out. I've been thinking a lot lately about how important smiling is—not just in our day-to-day lives, but also as a way to build up our self-confidence. I think that one of the reasons I've been feeling so down lately is because I haven't been smiling enough, and when you don't smile, it can lead to all kinds of problems.
Now you might be thinking: "Smiling is easy! It's a natural expression of happiness and joy." And that's true—but it's also so much more than that.
For me, smiling is an action that shows others that they matter to me. It's a way to engage with them in a positive way and make them feel like they are important, regardless of the situation. When I smile at someone on the street or at work or in class, it communicates to them that they have value as a person and deserve attention from me; it demonstrates that I care about who they are and what they want.
For those of us who struggle with anxiety or depression, smiling can sometimes feel like an impossible task—but it doesn't have to be! If you're feeling down or anxious, try smiling at someone today (or even at yourself!). You might be surprised by how good it feels!
You know that saying, “Fake it until you make it”? Well, it turns out there may be some truth to that.
We tend to smile when we’re happy. But it’s actually a two-way street: smiling causes the brain to release dopamine, which makes us happier.
Researchers have found that the link between smiling and happiness could be due to what's known as the "facial feedback hypothesis," where a smile may actually improve a person’s mood.
How does it work? When you smile, your brain receives signals from your facial muscles that tell it what you're feeling—and those signals are the same ones that tell us we're happy. So when you smile at someone (or even just by yourself), you're actually tricking your brain into thinking that you're happy. And then guess what? You feel happier!
What does this mean? Well, if you smile, your brain will think you are happier than you actually are. And if you're happier, then you'll be more likely to smile again—and again—and again. It's a vicious cycle that leads to increased happiness over time!
But wait… there's more! Not only does a smile make us feel happier, but it also makes us more attractive to others. A recent study found that people who smiled during a job interview were more likely to get hired than those who didn't!
Smiling is a powerful tool for improving your mood. It can boost your self-esteem, help you feel more confident, and make you feel happier—and that's just the beginning!
But what if you're not a naturally cheerful person? What if you don't like smiling? It's okay! You don't have to force yourself into a fake smile every time you come across someone. But try giving yourself a genuine grin when you're alone and see if it lifts your spirits at all! You can also begin each day by smiling at your reflection in the mirror—even if it feels funny or uncomfortable at first, just keep doing it anyway.
It might seem strange at first, but after a while this practice will become easier and more natural until eventually it becomes second nature for you to smile whenever you think about it. You'll find that even when things aren't going well for you, simply forcing yourself to smile will start making them better again!
So go ahead—smile at yourself in the mirror every morning before work, or even better: make an effort to smile at everyone around you during the day! You'll look great, feel great, AND get some extra help making friends along the way!
