The Greek term autos means self and we know it from words such as autonomy, autobiography, etc. This means that autos is about me, about oneself. So the car, the vehicle, is a vehicle that drives the way I want it to, that is, I steer it myself. A lot of things today have this veneer of autos, that is, of myself, of me, I am at the centre. That is sometimes very important, and a certain degree of self-determination is also important for us to survive. But sometimes it is also exaggerated. And so it happens that there are people for whom it is no longer possible to integrate into a structure unless their will or wish happens. For me, the counterpart of autos is sym, that is, the common. Together. Symphony: the common sound (also from the Greek) or sympathy - which literally means "to suffer with". I wish you a good balance between autos and sym.
I wish you an extraordinary day!