Over the course of time, man has controlled surface waters, particularly in urban areas, by means of structural measures. For example, canals have been used to control the course of rivers. This makes the remaining land easier to plan and utilise - whether for housing or agricultural land. This is an optimisation that would not be possible if nature were left untouched. This works well as long as there is no heavy rainfall. In such cases, canals can turn out to be boomerangs, because they allow the increased water masses to flow faster, causing the water level to rise higher. This leads to unwanted flooding. In the context of human relationships, many people also want to have control and steer things in a targeted manner. As long as everything is peaceful, this works well. But in conflict situations, this can have a boomerang effect, just like with the canal. It is then more advisable to give freedom instead of control. If this concerns you...
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