Cups usually have one handle, those for small children even two. The handles - in my opinion - do not necessarily look nice. I like a cup better. But: the handle has its functional purpose: if there is a hot drink in the cup, you would often not be able to hold it with your bare hand because of the heat. Thanks to the handle, however, you can bring the cup to your mouth, blow a little and then drink it gently. The handle is a valuable support for the actual purpose. Sometimes we feel the same way: analogous to the handle, we feel it is only a means to an end. But the means is also important. If you currently feel more like a handle than a cup: this task and role are also important. Remember that your identity is not in your task and role, but in the identity you have received from your Creator as a unique creature. This should help you to live this role with joy and peace.
I wish you an extraordinary day!