When I was in Poland the other day, I met a woman on the street with a conspicuously large frame of glasses. The conspicuous glasses frame caught my attention when we crossed each other on the street. I did not like it at all, on the contrary. Unprompted, thoughts such as "How can you wear such ugly glasses?!" came to my mind and I really couldn't find an answer to this question. It didn't seem to me that any obvious reason could have influenced the choice. But after a while I was also put to shame by other thoughts such as "What am I presuming to judge this woman and what is beautiful or not?". Maybe she had no other choice for financial reasons." or "Maybe she doesn't like the glasses that much either, but gratitude outweighs that she can see better again thanks to them." I was very ashamed of my arrogance and I still am.
I wish you an extraordinary day!