In nature, nuts protect themselves from access by a hard shell. We humans can often only open them by force and a lot of strength. Nature obviously has a different solution. When the ripe nuts fall to the ground, moisture causes the nut to germinate as a seed. The rest is then growth, first underground via the roots, then of course above ground. However, it takes several years to decades until the tree produces the first nuts. Patience is needed. We humans react in certain situations where we want a quick solution or answer, as with the nuts: often with violence if we lack this patience. Violence can be physical or psychological. We can exert pressure with words as well as with hands or tools. Make sure that where you want rapid change, you do not resort to violence, but to patience and give natural growth a chance. Also in relationships.
I wish you an extraordinary day!
