If you peel a banana, you usually proceed like this: You hold the banana in one hand and then peel it vertically from the base of the stalk from top to bottom. The skin is peeled off in strips along the length of the banana. I suppose it would never occur to anyone to peel the banana horizontally in a ring or spiral - simply because it would be very tedious, as the peel structure is not at all like that. Or when you tear paper, you sometimes notice that it is very easy in one direction and very tedious or unattractive in the direction perpendicular to it. With both the banana and the paper, it is due to the structure. If you understand this, you can handle the material much more easily and cleanly. We humans also have such character structures and the better we understand them in ourselves and in others, the better we can deal with each other.
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