Most of us can read. This is an enormously important skill and competence because it enables communication that is inaccessible to illiterate people. However, we may be able to read texts but not understand them. This may be because we are not familiar with the language in which it is written, which uses the same letters, or because the content is about something unknown to us. So we have the ability to read, but not the ability to understand. You need both. It's the same with us in everyday life: we experience things, but sometimes we don't realise that there is a message in what we have experienced. That what we have experienced is not a coincidence, or we experience things and ask ourselves: why now, why here, why me or us? As a Christian, I am convinced that such moments come from God - and therefore He has all the answers to my questions. And to yours, too.
I wish you an extraordinary day!