Often time life tells us a lot of "can'ts". What we can't do, what we can't have, what we can't say, and as a result this translates to us that we don't deserve much. When this feeling lies underneath the surface within our bodies, we opt out of asking for "much", asking for what we want, and most importantly, asking and demanding for what we need.
For many of us, this starts in childhood with the people in our lives constantly controlling and shaping our world view and perception, especially surrounding our inner needs. In the end, those same needs are shrouded in our fear and the feelings, thoughts, and opinions of people who genuinely feel we do not and should not have a choice on the trajectory of our lives. Without that choice, along with the risk of not getting our needs met, we unconsciously adapt to a survivalist way of living that tells us we are not deserving of accommodations, and shouldn't need them anyway.
In this episode, NicoleHeals breaks down why we do need accommodations in life, why we should be happy and proud to have them, and the ways that many of us already hold accommodations for ourselves in our lives(psst! even the ones who say accommodations are for the weak ;).
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