During this series, we will explore how you can regain joy after suffering from the trauma of loss. Last week, they share the process involved with getting engaged and married. This week, they talk about the birth and death of their firstborn, Thandiwe. They shared what their grief process looked like. Mbulelo expressed the burden he carried of being able to pray for others to rise up from death, yet having to experience burying his child, He struggled with how he could see things in the spirit concerning other people’s lives, but couldn’t see into the tragedy that would await him and Pulane. As a husband and father, he expressed the guilt he experienced, how he blamed God, the shame he experienced, and his question to God: Why.
