Dating involves two persons, there's a need to define your relationship for you to know your stand. Don't get served breakfast all the time! Red flags are obvious. If you're not ready for marriage stay away from dating someone whos ready! Don't play with people's emotions and feelings, it hurts. Let your intentions be clear to your partner. If you want to have a fun look for someone you're both ready for fun and not a serious relationship. Some date men because of money and material gifts, and some men date ladies just to satisfy their sexual urges. It's left to you to determine and define your relationship to avoid wasting your time chasing shadows.