Love is blind as they say, but I say love is not blind. We humans just decide to turn a blind eye to some important things in our relationship. Red flags would have been showcasing and drifting but we claim to be in love and act as blind to it also claim to change our partner after marriage! The question is "Would it change after marriage?" What I take or opine to be a red flag in my relationship might not be a red flag for you. I don't club nor take alcohol if I meet someone who's into all sorts that means it's a red flag for me! Anyways... I took my time to discuss this in my latest podcast called #Redflags take your time to listen to it. Finally, don't die in silence .... If it's not working walk away. What you think would change after marriage might actually grow beyond your control if not controlled at the foundation stage.
