Ok, I know I say I'm ready to have kids but y'all should really take that with grains of salt. Like a lot of salt. Enough to kill a frog, truly. I'm probably just in a growing/healing mode. There's a lot you learn from yourself during the process as well. I've digressed. Getting back to the topic at hand. Recognition and accountability. That's the goal honestly. Stop seeing yourself as better for someone than what they choose for themselves. If you think like that. I spoke and used Hal as an example but in reality, the nice guys women tend to meet aren't that obvious at all. There are some who are but most aren't. Men, check your brethren. Make sure the ones you surround yourself with aren't abusers or manipulators. It's a small start but it'll help us protect our women.
