WHAT DO YOU BOTH NEED RIGHT NOW?
When we ask for what we need its important to recognize the place you’re in right at that moment. The pressing need will allow a pathway for other needs to be discussed at a latter time. Meaning, if intimacy is the most pressing need then the conversation can start out with the level of commitment and accountability needed from both parties for that connection.
Maybe, the answer is be intentional and to not over think having sex. If we have to start some where, then have sex and ask questions later. This sounds good to me right at this moment. Again, being in action.
The point here is to understand without a doubt that each person is just as important as the other in a relationship. We are always worth everything we ask for.
Remember that asking is the action step here and that’s important. Should we expect every item on our list to be fulfilled all at once? No, but its definitely a start in the right direction.
The bottom line is that if we never ask the question then the answer will always be NO!
