What parts ofYOUare loved and what parts of YOU are not? Yes, its real when we say; "I love this about me but not that so much." Here's the thing. We are a Whole Package and every part of us deserves to be loved and taken care of period.
And, our spouse (Sonia) deserves to know and love every part of us as well. No more hiding, evading or making excuses to not be seen or known. This was me for over twenty years. My wife Carolyn has been dealing with Body Image all her life. It's only been a few months since she has learned to LOVE ALL OF HER.
What does this mean for me? I get to LOVE ALL OF HER now. This means FREEDOM. Let me explain why I feel such freedom now that my wife has released self hatred and self sabotage.
I get to love Carolyn fully. Meaning no more hiding certain parts of her body when we are being intimate. No more reassuring to her how beautiful she is because she now sees that for herself. Shopping is fun because she gravitates to more colors and texture. Loving it because I'm a shopper.
Okay, Its not about me so much but, I can't ignore how affected I was all this time. It was frustrating and heart breaking to witness my wife not love herself for all these years. I know what I saw and loved but she didn't see it for herself. Do you know someone like this? Are you the spouse like me trying to convince your spouse that she is beautiful inside and out? This was me for years.
But, here we both are on the other side of things and still keeping the momentum going to end negative body image, not just for us but for others all over the world.
It's our goal, mission and passion to share our experiences and come to you with solutions. We are born worthy and are deserving to be loved. The love has to start with Self,no questions about it!
Freedom is waiting for you,
Much Love Always,
Sonia & Carolyn
