A clear message to us all, there is hope. Today Amy and her mum reflect on how their bond was key to Amy’s survival. They both speak frankly about the ongoing abuse from Amy’s boyfriend and how it felt for them both, Amy being the victim and mum being a spectator. Amy relays memories of being in a state of confusion and anxiety and constantly leaving the relationship but then returning to the perpetrator. Amy also describes the common tactics perpetrators use at the point of leaving, which goes from love bombing- holidays, money etc. and how quickly the fantasy fades and reality hits that there is no escaping his abuse. There is no happy ever after. In this recording Jo talks about the resilience required to keep the door open for your loved ones when they are in abusive relationships. She explains how at many points she was tested to the limit and came very close to walking away and letting Amy get on with it but she didn’t leave her daughters side. They both can see how this could have ended if Amy had no place to turn. We get a clear picture of how important it is to keep the door open for a victim of abuse as one day it may be the difference between life and DEATH, literally
This will be upsetting for some, but it highlights the need for a trauma informed empathic approach to be used by all. If your child is school age and you have concerns, ask to speak to your schools safeguarding lead and request that your child and you receive support for Domestic Abuse. Since 2021 The |Domestic Abuse Bill recognised and named children exposed to domestic abuse are also ‘victims of Domestic Abuse’, and should be supported and protected as such.
New UK Legislation on NFS- Non Fatal Strangulation to be released 7/6/22
There are services in every area in the UK please reach out if you need support
The National Domestic Abuse Free 24hr Helpline: 0808 2000 247
Hestia Bright Sky App: links you to all national and local DASV- Domestic Abuse and Sexual Violence services
Disclaimer: Please do not use these recordings to gage your risk and safety. These are open discussions around sensitive topics that reflect individual opinions and stories. If you feel you need support with mental health, please contact your G.P or specialist support services in your area. If you feel you are unsafe, please contact the National 24hr Domestic Abuse Helpline and or the Police.
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