This week we ask the question 'does Domestic Abuse effect our children? Yes of course it does and in many more ways than we hear about. This discussion hurt all our hearts as we speak about how abuse in the home deeply impacts our children. How we have witnessed our precious children develop mental health, self-destruct and deeply intrenched survival techniques after the aftermath of being exposed to an abusive parent or family member. We name this because finally we can. We want everyone to open their ears and hear what our children go through, their struggles and how they try and communicate their trauma. We want family courts, services and schools to hear us. Many of children's needs are dismissed and minimized often going unnoticed. Blaming terrible two's, rebellious teens etc. No stop right there..........they are suffering trauma just as any other victim of abuse however rather than speak they act out. Children’s needs are not recognised enough, and some services are failing dreadfully. This will be upsetting for some but it highlights the need for a trauma informed empathic approach to be used by all. If your child is school age and you have concerns ask to speak to your schools safeguarding lead and request that your child and yourself receive support. There are services in every area in the UK please reach out if you need support The National Domestic Abuse Free 24hr Helpline: 0808 2000 247 Hestia Bright Sky App: links you to all national and local DASV- Domestic Abuse and Sexual Violence services Disclaimer: Please do not use these recordings to gage your risk and safety. These are open discussions around sensitive topics that reflect individual opinions and stories. If you feel you need support with mental health please contact your G.P or specialist support services in your area. If you feel you are unsafe please contact the National 24hr Domestic Abuse Helpline and or the Police.
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