****CONTENT WARNING: KIRA BRINGS THE TEARS****. You may want to grab the tissues for this one! “Sunk cost fallacy: noun - the phenomenon whereby a person is reluctant to abandon a strategy or course of action because they have invested heavily in it, even when it is clear that abandonment would be more beneficial.”
Whether it’s a defining character trait or a family heirloom, sometimes reevaluating why we are holding on to what we are is so deeply imbedded in our identities and our personal histories that the idea of releasing ourselves from said objects or situations feels too overwhelming. However, showing ourselves grace in the decision making process and allowing ourselves the space to ideate a future that’s free from the expectations of our ancestors or forbears can help us open up to our most authentic expression in the moment. By being honest and truthful with ourselves and making a consistent personal inventory a priority, we can ensure that our curated legacies of personal effects reflect the fabulous tapestry of our life’s experiences. Melody Reed was a client of mine who taught me some major lessons about finding silver linings and remaining committed to your passions even through your darkest days. Her life, as I knew her, was an exploration of contrast between light and dark, and her lens was gentle, compassionate, and full of wonder, even as her wry smile and dry humor played with the sharper edges. Thank you, Melody. Please enjoy Melody’s photos and some of her digital footprint here: https://instagram.com/enchanted_camera?utm_medium=copy_link. Feel free to join the conversation at https://www.facebook.com/groups/625330825260625/?ref=share