Why are we so afraid of “failing”? Most of us fail by not trying… which is the
worst thing!
The biggest failing we do, in my opinion is failing as a
parent, yet that’s needed in order for us to continue to evolve.
2nd is at marriage… the two most important things we do in
life we fail at the most, but we just keep on going any way, as we should.
And guess what else, most of us fail at this in some way, at
some point. I don’t think I’ve ever met a perfect parent.
It’s interesting that the most important job we do as humans,
we do without any training whatsoever!!
Yet other things in life that would bring us so much joy we
are afraid to do because we’re afraid of failing at.
Remember that when we fail at something, if doesn’t mean WE
are a failure… we just have more to learn on any given subject, but too often
we forget that and see ourselves as “failures” in different areas of life,
which is not helpful!
But what if we went into something knowing that we may not
get it right at first, but that it doesn’t mean it’s a bad thing.
What if we saw it all as an evolution of sorts, and we took
the time to see what we did right and the not so right and took notes on what
we could improve on going forward?
And what if we OWNED our “failures” instead of being ashamed
of them? Own them and then move one with life.
Especially if we feel we have failed others in our behavior? It’s not an easy thing to do, but how
liberating to own where we think we’ve fallen short and even make amends if
need be, then march forward making use of the lessons we’ve learned?
IMPORTANT:
If you are in an abusive
relationship and you don’t feel safe,
call the National Domestic
Violence Hotline!
National Domestic Violence Hotline
Hours: 24/7. Languages: English, Spanish and
200+ through interpretation service
800-799-7233
OR text START to 88788
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