All things I wish I knew before my first marriage ended in divorce.
You’re welcome!
1. ALLOW your husband to be the man he was born to be… what is innately manly, for him. Allow him to DO for you… open your door, pay for dinner, be a provider, be your protector.
2. Be in feminine energy, practice receiving any and all the things he wants to give you.
3. Don’t mother him… when we mother men, they become a man version of a child.
4. ALLOW your guy to be himself, to be his own person/self… just as we want to be ourselves.
5. Love the man he IS, not a version you wish he was… We fall into a trap of wanting to CHANGE our husbands into something they’re not.
6. Do for him just to do, not to receive back what YOU want.
7. REFOCUS your attention… from what you don’t like, to what you like and want more of in your guy.
8. Look INWARD… when we complain 99% of the time we don’t see ourselves as being at fault (at least when we complain to others), at all! There is always room in every one for personal growth and evolving.
IMPORTANT:
If you are in an abusive relationship and feel you are not safe, please contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline below right away!
National Domestic Violence Hotline
Hours: 24/7. Languages: English, Spanish and 200+ through interpretation service
800-799-7233
SMS: Text START to 88788
Ask for help… friends, family, church
Learn more
Mentioned:
The Ten Bridges of Transformation by Marianne Williamson, on Audible
A Course in Miracles
https://www.amazon.com/course-Miracles-Foundation-Inner-Peace/dp/1883360269/ref=tmm_mmp_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1678745244&sr=8-1
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