If you've ever wondered why things in your life just keep going wrong… rest assured, nothing
has gone wrong!
The FIRST
problem, when everything (or things) seem to always be going wrong is… just us thinking that they are.
Let’s be
clear though that I am not talking about when something like an accident
happens (example) and you need to recover from injuries sustained, or something
similar, something temporary.
I’m talking
about when in general you just feel like things in your life always happen
that “should not be happening to you”,
maybe for years or even decades.
First off,
just know you’re not alone in this. Tons
of people from all walks of life, ages, sizes, financial statuses around the
world have these thoughts too.
The
interesting thing is that what is a
problem for you, may not be a problem for someone else, in the least!
Why is
that? Because our thoughts about the
SAME things are different..
Also, our
approach to finding a solution is different… ONE of us may think there IS a
solution while the other does not.
Let’s compare
our “bad gone wrong” situation with someone having just been mistakenly
diagnosed with a terminal illness, or maybe wrongfully sentenced to life in prison
for a crime they did not commit. Either of these tow could probably tell you
that they would give up all their possessions, including riches in order to
regain their health or freedom.
It’s all
about perspective.
Lastly, when
we tend to focus on the “bad”, we’re going to have a miserable life, and if I
may say so, make others miserable as well.
So, next time
you find yourself thinking (feeling) your things in your life are horrible, take
a deep breath and say to yourself
“nothing has gone wrong here, I am so abundantly blessed”. Try taking a look
around
and notice
everything in your life that is coming to you without you having to do
anything…
your breath,
your health, how your body functions, clean water, heat, daylight, nature, the
beating of your heart, your bed at night…
IMMERSE yourself
in all the good in your life as much and as often as possible.
Positivity
overcomes mountains… Nothing has gone wrong, everything is for our benefit, for
our evolving, part of being human.
Nothing has gone
wrong… it’s all about perspective, really.
.
IMPORTANT:
If you are in an abusive
relationship and you don’t feel safe,
call the National Domestic
Violence Hotline!
National Domestic Violence Hotline
Hours: 24/7. Languages: English, Spanish and
200+ through interpretation service
800-799-7233
OR text START to 88788
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