One of the biggest problems/complaints a lot of people have
is “other people’s” behavior, and how that creates problems in our lives…
* What they do
* What they don’t do
* How they do it
* They do too much,
* They don’t do enough
* They do it wrong
*They visit too much
* They don’t visit enough
* They spend too much
* They spend their money on the wrong things (
* They’re too stingy…
I used to not be
aware of this… I was myself swimming in the deep end with others about OPPs
(other people’s problems)… Oblivious as to the harm this was causing, not just
other people, but myself, too.
If someone wanted to
complain about someone I’d jump right in the pool with them... what a waste
of time and energy.
If you listen /pay
attention you’ll know that what I’m talking about is true. I’m so glad for this knowledge now.
But just talking it
about is one thing (still not a good thing though)… but letting what other people do AFFECT us and our lives is something
totally different, and this is what I want you to pay attention to.
I’m talking about how
deeply are you letting what other people do, how THEY live THEIR lives
affect you, how you live your life?
Same thing as when we FEEL / THINK we fall short! Give yourself a break.
Stop thinking about this and just do you, make YOU happy! EP 59 – GIVE OTHERS THE
GIFT OF YOUR HAPPINESS.
Clue: How do you feel
when everyone in your life is happy? As supposed to them being miserable, always
wanting and needing you to always do more for them?
So, here’s
what I’ve learned… making ourselves happy
is the best gift when can give ourselves and our loved ones, and allowing
others to just that for themselves… be / live their lives the best they
can. That’s one of the best gifts, if
not the best gift we can give each other.
Try it and
let me know what you find out!!
Mentioned in
this episode:
EP 59 – GIVE OTHERS THE GIFT OF YOUR OWN HAPPINESS
IMPORTANT:
If you are in an abusive
relationship and you don’t feel safe,
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Violence Hotline!
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800-799-7233
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