Why do we compare ourselves to our friends or to what we see on the socials? We can have standards or deal breakers but are we choosing the wrong way to measure success? We're covering the standards we set in our lives in this one, from work to relationships, and if we’re screwing ourselves out of success by trying to measure it against the world. Adam's currently obsessed with the book, "The Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck" by Mark Manson so they've wrapped a topic around it. Do you actually need two texts an hour or do you value the “goodnight” texts more? Do you need your boss’s pat on the back or just the raise? Follow Perfectly Incapable on Instagram @PerfectlyIncapablePodcast.