In this episode, Peter rides a shotgun seat - Todd takes the bull by the horn. Topics range from compassion to parenting mishaps - through a lens of... as you may guess lived, raw, enduring struggle. Uncovered herein is a huge realization of how being part of this podcast has unearthed unlikely and surprising benefits in multiple ways.
Related points:
- No stoplights and two post offices in Hartland Vermont.
- Communication is key and sets intention for all those involved. Lack thereof leaves gaps and places for confusion.
- It's hot in Arizona, but it is a dry heat.
- Sometimes the celebration of an event pales in contrast to attending the event itself, and in its entirety.
- Laundry rooms, although small, can hold large topics and host huge conversations.
- At the spot where words turn into emotion, or flirt right on that edge. This is the spot where being truly alive and present demands attention.
- Perspectives differ between every individual. What one person sees in us, oftentimes is something we are completely blind to ourselves.
- Frogging can be fun.
Mental habit / action / tool examples:
- If you think you know something about an event you've never attended - try to remain aware of that fact - the assumptive nature of what you think you know, and how that may impact your presence or decisions.
- When a statement or message from someone triggers a sense of emotion in your body - listen closely and look for an opportunity to stretch and grow. It will be uncomfortable, even to look, but holds a wealth of education if you allow it in.
- Seek feedback and when it's given, look at it as a gift.
- Ask more questions than statements, as much as possible.
Quotes / quips:
- "It's more important to be loving than to be right (in a marriage/relationship)." - Keith
- "Do I want to be looked at as the person that is right, or do I want to be looked at as the person who is caring?"
Rando Mentions:
