Friday Content!
We speak about our trials in boarding school, a lot of trauma bonding, working our way out of this and how as men we need to do the work and a lot depends on us!
Chapters
(00:00) Introduction
(02:27) “You didn’t watch Naruto?”
(03:51) “I would never send my children to boarding school in Nigeria”
(05:26) Dele Alli
(08:29) Porn experiences in boarding school
(10:54) Boarding school or Prison?
(15:16) We got beat for a stolen mechanical pencil
(17:30) Weapons of choice in boarding school
(22:33) Creating a culture of trauma
(24:36) “You adapt so much to your environment that you lose your identity”
(28:58) Bathroom life in boarding school
(32:03) Drug Smuggler Academy
(39:22) You can trace a lot of issues back to boarding school
(40:07) “I was helping people cheat”
(44:18) Wanting to be “cool” made me look down on other people
(48:33) The idea behind boarding wasn’t bad
(50:42) More prison parallels
(51:25) There are better ways to tell a child that life is not easy
(55:06) Four point knock
(56:15) What can people learn from our trauma?
(57:30) Folks are still living in a boarding school mindset
(58:30) Funto checks in on audience
(01:01:50) Men…
(01:02:50) “Your soul is not settled”
(01:03:35) Men, it depends on you!
(01:06:10) That could be me if I don’t do the work
(01:07:33) “The most emotional people in your lives are men”
(01:10:39) Broken boys teaching children brokenness
(01:12:41) “90% of our listeners are women”
(01:14:33) The male culture is rotten
(01:16:15) Closing encouragements
(01:17:13) Your soul is tender as a man
(01:18:42) Introducing GOOD THOUGHTS
