Episode 4 delves into the concept of a sexual ethic—what it means, why it's important, and how to create one. Lacette starts by defining a sexual ethic as a personally constructed statement that guides our sexual identity, expression, and decision-making. Ebony shares her social experiment, interviewing friends and family about their sexual ethics and the lessons she learned. The hosts explore the significance of connection, owning our bodies, and effective communication of our desires and sexual boundaries. Lacette introduces tools and resources for creating a sexual ethic, emphasizing the power of intention, agency, and liberation. Join us as we unravel the intricate threads that shape our sexual lives.
Resources discussed:
Hot and Unbothered: How to Think About, Talk About, and Have the Sex You Really Want ( Yes, no, maybe list) by Yana Tallon-Hicks, Kristin Condon, et al.
Closing prompt:
What new thoughts do you have about a sexual ethic?
Who can be your conversation partner to start your sexual ethic journey?
Take some time to set the terms of your engagement i.e. the foundation for your sexual ethic.