We all have delt with some sort of trauma, and what we do with that trauma is different. You can avoid it, let it fester and consume you or you can use it as motivation to build your world the way you see fit.
Don't be a victim of circumstances, be the hero of your own story and use the hurt as fuel to conquer your demons. No sympathy necessary, I am sharing my story to inspire someone to change their environment! being a victim is a choice! Rise Above ,It is that easy you just have to want to do it!