Welcome back! You can't have your cake & want another one as well.
First story: https://www.reddit.com/r/openmarriageregret/comments/12p0anb/polyamory_was_my_husbands_idea_but_now_he_doesnt/
Second story: https://www.reddit.com/r/openmarriageregret/comments/11gq71o/we_decided_to_open_the_relationship_and_now_i/
See you next time, Ciao!