So I still can't control and force people to change even if it is for healthy growth. I'm not some brutal dictator who has that power over others, however in the case introspection I do have the ability to change one person, myself. I don't even need to be a brutal dictator to do it! Now I can't just completely change who I am on the spot but in any moment I can begin to change by doing small little thing that will lead to those big sustainable character changes.
