In this essay I go through a few reasons why it would have been better not to have been, and how not even an Utopia would change this preference.
Full text: https://www.metaphysicalexile.com/2021/04/better-to-remain-in-potentiality.html
Music by CO.AG: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCcavSftXHgxLBWwLDm_bNvA
