Loyalty is important..so is finding your tribe. No matter how loving and loyal your support group is such as family and friends, the raw truth is that we are constantly growing and they may or may not be able to expand themselves to hold your growth. Family and friends hold a loyal space in our lives - at the same time, it is important to proactively seek and grow a tribe that supports the different phases of our lives and importantly nourish the parts of ourselves that have not yet been recognised by the people in our lives currently. A circle of family members or school friends we grew up with are a home base to always go back to, but a circle of soul members outside of those 2 circles is equally important to nurture our soul.