John Oliver is British, trying to tell Americans how their country and states should run. He evidently has no idea what parenting is, and how he feels matters more than what is right or good for him.
https://www.theguardian.com/tv-and-radio/2022/oct/17/john-oliver-last-week-tonight-recap-trans-rights?CMP=oth_b-aplnews_d-3