Shame
Hackupy Scham CO2 Fußabdruck Seth Godin
"What did I do to deserve this?"
Reward and Punishment
instead of WOW this is amazing
positivity vs negativity
churches and religion
the bible is like Tarot Cards
Tools
pass along cultural norms
there
the problem when you are really good at pattern recognition
and contradiction
and what is NOT working anymore
and what is a blatant lie
exclusion
back then help the less fortunate
together we are faster and better than alone
From the Church as a Shame Machine
we get to
How people project things on neuro diverse people
Writing down all Ideas to talk to Sharon about in a HEY SHARON file :)
all people Sharon talks to in the last weeks are ALL neurodivergent
Label / language yourself
it gives indescribable freedom
Labeling is something powerful
Being labeled by others is great for Alex
then he learns about himself
giving the labels an AMAZING meaning
projecting something on others
example:
not being self confident
people don't show the inner work
being on the spectrum and having the luxury of being able to develop a sense of self naturally
self
identity
ideology
teachers in montessori
empathy in medical studies
Sharon's Mom: council for extraordinary children
THE HORSE! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SCfndagI_k4
running forward or backward
creativity
Test and Measure Creativity
George Land - NASA
retain creative capacity
cultural punishment factors
and
losing the pathways in the brain
how can we help other people to reconnect
- meditation
- sport
- taking time and being in nature
reconnect with childhood creativity
behavior modification bracelet
BONUS:
Shame and Church