DO YOU FEEL HOSTILITY AND IT'S BEARING DOWN ON YOU AS A WOMAN?
We make a huge mistake when we think our behavior doesn't affect others. The truth is IT DOES. Can you relate with that?
The increasingly hostile environment today is perpetuated by inflation and a couple working to put food on the table and a roof over their head. It's competition, fighting to survive. It's hard to care for other people when you're fighting for yourself. Is it any surprise if they're choosing to not have children? Bringing children into this world has emotional and financial costs.
Being a parent comes without a salary but is the most fulfilling role if you choose to take that responsibility on.
The last thing you need is your spouse fighting with you due to being frustrated and tired balancing home and work.
Women's body's aren't built for "go, go, go" mode because we have monthly cycles that affect our energy levels! Women need to begin honoring that.
Simply admitting that it's hard to work and that work needs to be balanced with their energy levels is going to make a huge shift among how women pursue work.
Note for women looking for their soul mate : Do not lie to yourself by telling yourself that you can have it all. If finding a partner is important to you, your actions should align with that. You must prioritize that.
If you're in "go, go, go" mode and don't know how to relax (without resorting to alcohol), you are going against that which makes you attractive to men.
Men want peace and cooperation at home, not competition. Leave competition outside the door.
Don't talk about "gender equality" because men and women are different biologically. They function differently. Each sex bring different things to the relationship. Begin acknowledging this to yourself.
This is the real power of leaning into your feminine energy as a woman. If you want to attract your soul mate, simply incorporate being more peaceful in your life. Nothing is more attractive to a man than a woman who is at peace with who she is.
I know life is not easy. But one must let go of the pain so that one is not hurting.
When you're not hurting, you won't hurt others. It's that simple. Not easy though, because yeah, try taming the ego mind.
In relationships, ego has no place. Each person in the relationship must work on themselves. Each one is responsible for their behavior.
Anything that affects your peace is too expensive. Prioritize your healing and peace.
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Neha
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