Toni Nieuwhof has a voice that is increasingly amplified in this season in regards to staying faithful to marriage and family and encouraging all of us to do the work. In her book, “Before You Split – Find What You Want for the Future of Your Marriage”, she has shared with brave vulnerability her personal story of life with Carey Nieuwhof, as well as life-changing principles to create the relationships you desire.
Toni shares that finding her grace zone is sometimes messy – a circuitous route rather than a linear path. Toni shares in our conversation today the journey from ‘why is this so hard’ – when stepping bravely into new arenas of voice and presence - into accepting daily that this is a new grace zone of living fully herself. Toni is calm, steady, with a quiet assertiveness that transforms into fire when she speaks.
Toni creates amazing content for relational health – and through her Smart Family podcast. Her book Before You Split is a game-changer no matter if you are married 1 day, 1 year or 37 years like Stephen and I. The ‘throwing your wedding ring at the person you love’ story is no joke. Strong marriages create strong legacies.