Men have a responsibility to fulfill their role in the home, as designated by God. Equality of worth, not equal roles. God looks at the soul and the heart of humans and values each human equally. "Man looks at the outwards appearance, but God looks on the heart."
A man's role in the house is to be the authority in a loving and equal relationship where the husband and wife work TOGETHER to run their household in a Godly way. Don't just dismiss my words until you hear the Bible verses explain it. I'm merely a messenger trying to put together verses for you to read. God is the authority, not me. Read his word and take it up with Him.
Seriously, listen to this podcast with your spouse and a notepad. Jot down the Bible references I give and make sure that you both look at them at another time because this podcast will probably make one or both of you angry!