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In this episode of The William Gomes Podcast, William explores autistic shutdowns, a quiet but deeply misunderstood response that many children experience when the world becomes overwhelming. Unlike meltdowns, shutdowns are inward. A child retreats, becomes silent or still, and focuses all their energy on coping with overload.

William reflects on what triggers shutdowns, how they differ from refusal or avoidance, and why they are a protective response rather than a behavioural choice. This gentle conversation helps listeners recognise the signs of shutdowns, understand the emotional and sensory load behind them, and learn how to support a child with calmness, patience and safety.

This episode invites listeners to view shutdowns as communication from a nervous system in distress, and to respond with empathy rather than pressure.