If someone hurts us, we should confront them. If they would not listen, take one or two others along so that the presence of witnesses will keep things honest, and try again. If he still would not listen, tell the church. If they would not listen to the church, we have to start over from scratch, confront him with the need for repentance, and offer again God's forgiving love. We must do this for false experiences will continue until the lesson will be learned. Take this most seriously: A yes on earth is yes in heaven; a no on earth is no in heaven.
