In this Season 2 premiere of The Partnership Podcast, Lauren and Trey break down how to prioritize sex and negotiate intimacy in a way that feels good for both partners. They explore the stories we create about our relationships—often shaped by insecurity—and ask, Is your partner actually avoidant, or is that just a narrative in your head?
Lauren shares why safety-seeking behaviors aren’t inherently wrong, but as adults, we get to decide whether we still want to feel their impact. They discuss the differences in arousal times, how Lauren uses a vibrator and erotic imagination to bridge the gap, and the power of reframing rejection through the “No Exercise” from The Wheel of Consent: Like a Pro Training.
From understanding the difference between obligations and invitations to sex, to negotiating everything—including who takes out the trash—this episode highlights the beauty of co-creating consent. As Lauren puts it, “Sex is not everything, it’s just a part of everything.” Plus, they explore Dr. Betty Martin’s redefinition of consent: “You don’t give consent, you arrive at consent—together.”
If you’ve ever struggled with mismatched desire, feeling rejected, or navigating intimacy with ease, this episode will give you practical tools to shift the dynamic. Tune in to learn how to release old narratives, communicate better, and create the sex life you both want—without pressure or resentment.
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About Us: Lauren and Trey are partners living in Central Virginia where Lauren owns and operates, SEX ED FOR YOU. She provides comprehensive sexuality education and embodied coaching to individuals, partners, and parents.
Through a biopsychosocial approach, Sex Ed for You works to restore positive and respectful approaches to sexuality and sexual relationships, as well as increase the possibility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination and violence. (WHO)
Sexual health is fundamental to the overall health and well-being of individuals, couples and families, and to the social and economic development of communities and countries. (WHO) When individuals are blocked from sexual health they are stunted from developing a sense of sensual play and enjoyment.
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Reminders: This is not a "how to" podcast, but rather a "how they" podcast. Please listen to our opinions and then come to your own! Learn from our mistakes or give our techniques a try! It’s all up to you. Lauren is NOT a therapist. She is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy and Relationship Coach.
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