In this episode of The Partnership Podcast, Lauren and Trey break down "Sleepy Side Sex" in response to an audience question. They explore the nuances of Offers, Requests, and Invitations, inspired by Dr. Betty Martin’s Wheel of Consent. Discover how these concepts can transform intimacy and communication. For deeper insights, check out Dr. Martin’s book The Art of Giving and Receiving. (https://amzn.to/3CJ6Rdi)
13:47 What are the differences between offers, requests, and invitations?
15:39 What is desire smuggling?
16:45 How do you get curious about your wanting?
23:50 Why is it vulnerable to make requests?
29:00 Why is it hard to enjoy oral sex?
33:00 Why don't we want to take from our partners?
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Through a biopsychosocial approach, Sex Ed for You works to restore positive and respectful approaches to sexuality and sexual relationships, as well as increase the possibility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination and violence. (WHO)
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