When obstacles come our way, most men tend to run and hide in the comfort and safety of addictions or their own dreamworlds where nothing can hurt them and they have no problems...these are your lost boys. Life is always full of problems, you are not going to change that so you might as well get use to it. Real men however, embrace the struggles and they achieve great things.
What is the secret?
Accountability. Taking personal ownership of all of your past mistakes is the first step to becoming something greater.