The way to "rewrite" destiny is to choose a forgiving or peaceful perception of the current experience. That could also be a loving, accepting, or compassionate perception, for example.
This is part of a longer audio dated 2/6/11 and found on the Awakening Together website at this link: https://awakening-together.org/holy-spirit-guides-2011-part-1/
Here is a link to the full Regina Dawn Akers Early Teachings playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLcCb8qlmwtFlVb8bsgGORe8JBM0-H57oC