Ern and Iso discuss which person is more replaceable within a relationship, is it the bread winner or the person that does the small things around the house. Do we place to much importance on the money maker or is the person that turns the house into a home just as important, what actually is turning a house into a home mean, what are the steps in order to make this possible, is it a feeling or a look. Also is community dead in the neighborhoods, the images that we seen growing up how impactful was it to our lives. The lack of strong men in family lead young women not allowing anyone to help/coach there sons which leads them to life riddled with trials and tribulation.