Today we are going to discuss red flags, what they are and how to determine if there is a red flag in your relationship. If you are not in a relationship, these are good to keep in mind when you do enter into a relationship or start dating.
Red Flags are a warning sign. They may not be deal breakers, but definitely a discussion would need to be had. There are some red flags that would be deal breakers. Today I am going to share 15 red flags with you. I have created a document with these red flags along with an explanation.
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Questions to ask yourself:
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- Am I making excuses for his behavior?
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- Do I feel uneasy about a behavior of his?
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- Is something inside me trying to tell me I am not in a healthy relationship?
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- Do I feel convicted that something is wrong?
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- Are my friends and family trying to warn me about something in this relationship?
- Am I looking out for these red flags as I navigate the dating world?
- What are other red flags I need to be aware of? Write them down.
Red Flags:
- He is not pursuing you
- you see his potential, but he’s not walking in it
- Lacks follow through
- Doesn’t have a relationship with God
- Says all the right things, but doesn’t act on it. He’s all talk.
- He asks you to do things for him when he doesn’t do much for you and makes you feel bad about it.
- Doesn’t treat you with respect and pushes your boundaries
- Talks about other girls while he is on a date with you or around you
- He is on his phone most of the time you are together, and isn’t engaging with you.
- Talks about himself the whole time you are on a date and/or always brings the conversation back to himself
- He is a jealous type
- He gets angry or raises his voice at you or others
- Prioritizes himself and his feelings over you.
- Talks down to you and doesn’t elevate and uplift you and who you are
- He doesn’t have a solid group of guy friends
