Never give advice unless you are asked; rule number one. To be good with the people around you, to stay sane, to keep your energy; follow the rule number one. Have you ever noticed sometimes you know how to change someone's life if only they listen to you, but they never do. Possibly the vs is true too. It is either not the right to internalize the advice or there are still things to be lived. Hold your rains close to your heart...