What you focus on, you find. Doesn't matter if its good or bad. I hear so many statistics about how people don't measure up to the analytics. They don't meet what the numbers say they should do. Do we ever stop to think if they are the numbers we should be focusing on? Or do we automatically take it to heart and start to feel like we're not doing good enough.
Negative outcomes and setbacks are a part of life and reality. And yes, its good to know that its a possibility and be prepared, but why do we focus on it? When we need to keep our eyes on the goal and spend our energy on the things we want to happen and enjoy.
When we are able to keep or mind on the positive things, let the negative things and critics roll off our backs and keep moving forward, the setbacks don't hurt near as bad as if we sulk in them.
When that voice starts blowing things out of proportion, go with what that gut is telling your and keep moving forward.
