In this episode of Voice of Impact with Frenetta Tate, I’m pulling back the curtain on a hard truth: too many of us have been taught to glorify struggle love. We were told that loyalty means endurance, that chaos is passion, and that suffering is proof of devotion. But here’s the shift—self-love hits different when you stop romanticizing pain and start demanding peace.
This monologue is your reminder that love is not meant to drain you, it’s meant to nourish you. That your worth is not proven through heartbreak, but honored through wholeness.
When you release the need to wear suffering like a badge, you open the door to love that feels like ease, like freedom, like home. I think deep down – we all want that kind of love.
If you’ve ever mistaken struggle for love, this message will awaken you. Listen in, breathe deep, and let these words move you toward a love that heals, not hurts.
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