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In this engaging conversation, Ben Pechey shares their journey as a non-binary individual, discussing the challenges of identity, bullying, and the importance of self-expression through fashion. They delve into their writing journey, particularly their book 'The Book of Non-Binary Joy', which aims to empower and celebrate non-binary individuals. The discussion also touches on the significance of acknowledging personal achievements, navigating accessibility in public spaces, and the role of compassion in fostering inclusivity. In this conversation, Ben Pechey and Charlie discuss the importance of creating a joyful workplace through open communication and support. They explore the significance of representation in various sectors, the challenges of misgendering, and the complexities of non-binary identities. The discussion emphasizes the need for understanding, respect, and the value of lived experiences in fostering inclusivity. Ben shares insights on navigating personal journeys of self-discovery and offers advice for those exploring their identities.

Takeaways

Ben's early experiences in school shaped their understanding of identity.

The impact of bullying can lead to a lifelong struggle with self-acceptance.

Fashion serves as a powerful tool for self-expression and identity.

Writing can be a means of healing and sharing experiences with others.

Messages from readers highlight the book's impact on their journeys.

Acknowledging achievements is crucial for personal growth and motivation.

Navigating public spaces can be challenging for non-binary individuals.

Inclusivity requires understanding and addressing diverse needs.

Compassion is essential in discussions about identity and difference.

Community support is vital in activism and personal journeys. Creating a supportive work environment is essential for joy.

Open communication helps in understanding diverse communities.

Mistakes in inclusion should be seen as learning opportunities.

Representation matters in all sectors, including marketing and insurance.

Timestamp 

00:00:00 Intro

00:01:24 Meet Ben

00:01:55 Growing Up

00:10:50 Fashion and Me

00:15:34 Your Book

00:20:29 Should Bathe in Our Success

00:26:07 What is Important First - Which Battle

00:35:00 EDI

00:44:27 Misgendering

00:51:58 Naive Non-Binary Questions

01:00:50 Education for Self-Discovery

01:03:25 Woke Is Good

Ben's details 

 https://www.benpechey.com/links?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaaPzrO-BiZ_6dXubprcCAZbu4BQWyVO6ryTZYL6fiR3HXpgR1ROFtXypUk_aem_oTQVpbH2ytvCkoa36SANaA 

 

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